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How Much Protein Does a Woman in Midlife Need?

Protein is one of the most essential nutrients for maintaining muscle, supporting metabolism, and keeping energy levels steady—especially for women in midlife. As we age, our bodies lose muscle mass, leading to slower metabolism, weight gain, and increased risk of falls or injury.

But how much protein do you need? And what happens if you get too much—or not enough? Let’s break it down.

What is Protein and What Does It Do?

Protein comprises amino acids, the building blocks for nearly every function in your body. It helps:

✅ Build and repair muscles
✅ Support a healthy immune system
✅ Maintain skin, hair, and nails
✅ Keep hormones balanced
✅ Promote a healthy metabolism

For midlife women, getting enough protein is key to maintaining strength, preventing muscle loss, and supporting overall health.

How Much Protein Do You Need in Midlife?

The general recommendation for protein intake is 0.8 grams per kilogram (or 0.36 grams per pound) of body weight per day. However, many experts suggest that midlife women need more—closer to 1.2 to 2.0 grams per kilogram (0.54 to 0.9 grams per pound) to support muscle maintenance and overall health.

For example:

  • A 150-pound (68 kg) woman may need 80–100 grams of protein daily for optimal health.
  • A 130-pound (59 kg) woman may aim for 70–90 grams daily.

Your exact needs depend on factors like activity level, muscle mass, and overall health goals.

What Happens If You Don’t Get Enough Protein?

If you’re not getting enough protein, you may experience:
⚠️ Muscle loss and weakness
⚠️ Slower metabolism and weight gain
⚠️ Brittle hair, nails, and dry skin
⚠️ Increased cravings and unstable blood sugar
⚠️ Poor recovery from workouts or injuries

Can You Have Too Much Protein?

While protein is essential, excessive intake can lead to:
⚠️ Digestive discomfort (bloating, constipation)
⚠️ Kidney strain (if you have pre-existing kidney conditions)
⚠️ Nutrient imbalances if protein replaces key carbs and healthy fats

The key is balance—enough protein to support your body, but not so much that it crowds out other essential nutrients.

Protein-Rich Foods for Midlife Women

Looking for protein-rich meal ideas? Here are some great options:
🥚 Eggs & Greek yogurt
🥩 Lean meats (chicken, turkey, fish)
🌱 Plant-based proteins (tofu, lentils, chickpeas)
🥜 Nuts, seeds, and nut butter
🧀 Cheese and cottage cheese

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Eating enough protein is one of the simplest ways to stay strong, energized, and healthy in midlife. If you found this post helpful, share it with a friend who could benefit from it, too!

💡 Check out our FREE Midlife Reboot Guide below to help you feel your best!

Let us know in the comments your favorite protein-rich meal or snack!

Until next time, take care of yourself and each other.

With Peace & Love,
Renee

Midlife Made Easier: Essential Resources for Reinventing Yourself

Explore these empowering resources designed to support your journey of self-discovery, confidence, and well-being in midlife.

🔹 “I Am” Mandala Coloring Book Relax, reflect, and rediscover your strength with 46 beautifully crafted pages featuring powerful “I Am” affirmations. Boost creativity, mindfulness, and inner peace.

🔹 “It’s Not Over Until I Win” Collection  Visit Renee & Ruby’s, our online store, and declare your resilience with this inspiring collection. Wear your strength proudly and remind yourself daily that you have what it takes to keep going. [Get 20% off with code ENJOY]

🔹 “Midlife Reboot Workbook” This free guide is a roadmap for midlife women ready to reinvent themselves. Discover self-exploration exercises, goal-setting strategies, health and wellness tips, and confidence-building techniques to create a fulfilling new chapter.

Your next chapter starts now—embrace it with confidence and purpose! 💖

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Healing When They’re Gone: Finding Forgiveness After Hurt

Forgiveness is a deeply personal journey that can feel even more complicated when the person who hurt you is no longer around. Whether they’ve passed away, moved on, or are simply out of reach, you may find yourself carrying unresolved pain, resentment, or unanswered questions.

But here’s the truth: Forgiveness isn’t about them. It’s about your peace, healing, and ability to move forward without the weight of the past holding you down.

In this post, we’ll explore what Forgiveness truly means, why it’s important, and how you can release the hurt even when reconciliation isn’t possible.

What Forgiveness Is (and What It Isn’t)

Before we dive into how to forgive, let’s clarify what Forgiveness is:

✅ Forgiveness is letting go of pain’s emotional grip on your heart and mind.
❌ Forgiveness is NOT excusing or justifying what happened.
✅ Forgiveness is choosing to heal, even if the other person never apologizes.
❌ Forgiveness is NOT reconciliation—sometimes, moving on separately is healthier.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. It means remembering without reliving the pain.

Why Forgiveness Matters for Your Well-being

Holding onto anger and resentment doesn’t punish the other person—it punishes you. Studies have shown that holding grudges can lead to:

  • Increased stress and anxiety
  • Higher blood pressure
  • Poor sleep quality
  • Emotional exhaustion
  • Strained relationships with others

On the flip side, embracing Forgiveness has been linked to lower stress levels, better heart health, and even improved immune function. It’s not just an emotional act but a self—care act.

How to Forgive When They’re No Longer Around

1. Acknowledge the Pain

Ignoring your emotions won’t make them go away. Take time to recognize how you feel—anger, sadness, betrayal, or disappointment. Write about it, talk to a trusted friend, or seek therapy.

2. Release the Need for an Apology

Many people struggle with Forgiveness because they’re waiting for closure. But when the person is no longer available to give it, you must create closure for yourself.

Ask yourself: If I never get an apology, can I still choose peace?

You can. And you deserve to.

3. Express Your Feelings in a Letter (Even if You Never Send It)

Writing can be a powerful tool for healing. Consider writing a letter to the person who hurt you. Pour out everything you feel—the good, the bad, and the painful. Then, decide what to do with it. Some people keep it, some tear it up, and others burn it as a symbolic act of release.

4. Shift the Focus from Blame to Growth

Instead of what they did, focus on what you can learn from it. Ask yourself:

  • What did this experience teach me?
  • How can I grow from this?
  • What boundaries can I set moving forward?

Pain often leaves wisdom in its wake.

5. Engage in a Forgiveness Ritual

Consider a forgiveness ritual if you need a tangible way to release the hurt. Some ideas include:

  • Writing down the pain and physically letting it go (e.g., tearing up the paper, burying it, or tossing it into water).
  • Meditating and visualizing yourself, releasing the burden.
  • Saying a prayer or affirmation of release: “I choose peace over pain. I release this hurt and open myself to healing.”

6. Seek Professional Guidance If Needed

Some wounds run deep, and healing takes time. A therapist, counselor, or spiritual advisor can help you navigate complex emotions and provide tools for true emotional freedom.

How I’ve Walked My Forgiveness Journey

Forgiveness has been a personal journey for me, too. I’ve had to let go of hurts from people who never acknowledged the pain they caused—some of whom I’ll never see again.

For a long time, I believed that forgiving them meant they “got away with it.” But eventually, I realized I was the one still suffering while they had moved on.

I chose to forgive for me, not for them. And I can tell you from experience—that letting go brings a peace that holding on never will.

Your Healing Matters

Forgiving when the person who hurt you is no longer around is one of the hardest things to do—but also one of the most freeing. You don’t need their apology. You don’t need their validation.

You need yourself—whole, healed, and at peace.

If this post resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you in the comments. How have you dealt with Forgiveness? What’s helped you release the past? Let’s support each other on this journey.

And if you know someone who might need this message, please share it with them.

Until next time, take care of yourself and each other.

With peace and love,
Renee

Resources for Your Healing Journey

Midlife Made Easier: Essential Resources for Reinventing Yourself

Explore these empowering resources designed to support your journey of self-discovery, confidence, and well-being in midlife.

🔹 “I Am” Mandala Coloring Book Relax, reflect, and rediscover your strength with 46 beautifully crafted pages featuring powerful “I Am” affirmations. Boost creativity, mindfulness, and inner peace.

🔹 “It’s Not Over Until I Win” Collection  Visit Renee & Ruby’s, our online store, and declare your resilience with this inspiring collection. Wear your strength proudly and remind yourself daily that you have what it takes to keep going. [Get 20% off with code ENJOY]

🔹 “Midlife Reboot Workbook” This free guide is a roadmap for midlife women ready to reinvent themselves. Discover self-exploration exercises, goal-setting strategies, health and wellness tips, and confidence-building techniques to create a fulfilling new chapter.

Your next chapter starts now—embrace it with confidence and purpose! 💖

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How to Live on Less and Still Buy the Good Toilet Paper

For 2025, my goal is simple: live on less than I make while still enjoying a fantastic life. I’m not giving up my mani-pedis, massages, or getting my hair done every two weeks—those are non-negotiables. But I’ve realized there are other areas where I can cut expenses without sacrificing joy. 

Why I’m Doing This 

Two big reasons: 

  1. I want to quit my full-time job by the end of the year to work on my business full-time. 
  2. I want to retire comfortably while traveling, having fun, and living on my own terms. 

This journey has also opened my eyes to something deeper: my relationship with money. Even at 64, I’m learning that financial healing is possible. And if I can do it, so can you. 

How I’m Cutting Costs (Without Sacrificing Joy) 

1. Dining In More Often 

I love eating out, but cooking at home saves so much money. I’m planning meals and experimenting with delicious, healthy meals that excite me to eat at home. 

2. Reevaluating Subscriptions 

I reexamined my streaming services, memberships, and apps. Do I need them all? Nope. I kept the ones I used and canceled the rest. 

3. Smart Grocery Shopping 

Buying in bulk, shopping sales, and using cashback apps are easy ways to save. And yes, I still buy good toilet paper—because some things in life are worth it. 

4. Prioritizing Experiences Over Things 

Instead of impulse shopping, I’m focusing on experiences that bring me joy—like road trips, spending time with loved ones, and investing in my personal growth. 

5. Finding Creative Ways to Save 

From using reward points to negotiating better service deals, I’m becoming more mindful of where my money goes. 

This journey isn’t about deprivation—it’s about intentional spending. It’s about spending in ways that align with my values and long-term goals. If you want to live well while spending less, I hope this blog inspires you. 

Until next time, take care of yourself and each other. And don’t forget to check out the resources below for more money-saving tips! 

With peace and love, 
Renee 

Midlife Made Easier: Essential Resources for Reinventing Yourself 

Explore these empowering resources designed to support your journey of self-discovery, confidence, and well-being in midlife. 

🔹 “I Am” Mandala Coloring Book Relax, reflect, and rediscover your strength with 46 beautifully crafted pages featuring powerful “I Am” affirmations. Boost creativity, mindfulness, and inner peace. 

🔹 “It’sNot Over Until I Win” Collection  Visit Renee & Ruby’s, our online store, and declare your resilience with this inspiring collection. Wear your strength proudly and remind yourself daily that you have what it takes to keep going. [Get 20% off with code ENJOY] 

🔹 “Midlife Reboot Workbook” This free guide is a roadmap for midlife women ready to reinvent themselves. Discover self-exploration exercises, goal-setting strategies, health and wellness tips, and confidence-building techniques to create a fulfilling new chapter. 

Your next chapter starts now—embrace it with confidence and purpose! 💖 

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Day 3: Taking Action – Creating Your Next Chapter

📅 Thursday: Turning Dreams into Reality

Welcome to the final day of the Midlife Reboot Challenge! 🎉

You’ve spent the past two days getting clear on what you want and breaking free from limiting beliefs. You’ve also started to reignite your passions and reconnect with what brings you joy. Now, it’s time for the most important step—taking action.

Because let’s be real—dreams don’t work unless we do.

You are not here to sit on the sidelines of your own life. Midlife is not a time to shrink back—it’s a time to step forward boldly and claim the life you truly want.

Step 1: Set a Goal That Excites You

We will take all the reflection and self-discovery from the past two days and turn it into something tangible.

Think about your joy list and the passion you identified yesterday. Now, let’s transform it into a SMART goal that’s Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.

📝 Today’s Task: Write Down a SMART Goal

✔ Vague goal: “I want to be healthier.”
✔ SMART goal: “I will walk 30 minutes every morning for the next 30 days.”

✔ Vague goal: “I want to write a book.”
✔ SMART goal: “I will write 500 words every morning for the next four weeks.”

💡 Pro tip: The more specific your goal, the more likely you are to achieve it!

Step 2: Create an Action Plan

A goal without a plan is just a wish. Today, we’ll break your goal into small, manageable steps you can start working on immediately.

📝 Today’s Task: Write Down Three Small Steps

Example for a fitness goal:
 Buy a pair of comfortable walking shoes.
 Set an alarm to walk at 7 AM.
 Find a walking buddy for accountability.

Example for a new hobby goal:
 Research local painting or dance classes.
 Schedule time in your calendar for creativity.
 Buy the supplies or tools you need to get started.

👉 What’s one small step you can take today toward your goal? Please write it down and commit to doing it!

Step 3: Stay Accountable & Keep Moving Forward

Taking action is only the beginning. The key to lasting change is staying consistent.

Here are a few ways to stay on track:
✅ Find an accountability partner – Share your goal with a friend who can support you.
✅ Write it down – Keep your goal somewhere visible as a daily reminder.
✅ Celebrate small wins – Every step forward is progress!

🌟 This is your time. Your second act is just beginning, and you have everything you need to create a life you love.

Final Thoughts & Your Next Step

💡 What was your biggest takeaway from this challenge? Let us know in the comments—we’d love to hear how this journey has inspired you!

✨ Want to keep the momentum going? Download your FREE Midlife Reboot Workbook today! It’s packed with exercises and insights to help you continue your transformation.

🔹 Click here to grab your copy! 🔹

🎉 Share this challenge with someone you love—because growth is even more powerful when we do it together.

💛 Until next time, take care of yourself and each other.

With Peace & Love,
Renee 💕

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Day 2: Breaking Free & Reclaiming Your Joy

Welcome back to Day 2 of the Midlife Reboot Challenge! 🎉 You made it through Day 1, where we focused on clarity and self-discovery—and now, it’s time to break free from the thoughts holding you back and start embracing what truly brings you joy.

Let’s be real—midlife can feel like a crossroads. Maybe you’ve told yourself “I’m too old to start over” or “It’s too late for me.” Sound familiar? If so, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth:

🚫 These are just limiting beliefs—and they aren’t true.

🌟 Midlife isn’t a deadline. It’s a launchpad! 🌟

You have decades of wisdom, resilience, and experience that make you stronger, wiser, and more capable than ever. Today, we will rewrite the script and shift your mindset from self-doubt to self-empowerment.

Step 1: Let Go of Limiting Beliefs

Think about one belief that’s been weighing you down. Maybe it’s:

❌ “I’m too old to change.”
❌ “I should have figured this out by now.”
❌ “I don’t have what it takes.”

📝 Today’s Task: Reframe Your Thoughts
Rewrite your limiting belief into something empowering and positive.

✅ “I have decades of wisdom and experience. Now is the perfect time to create the life I want!”
✅ “I am always growing and evolving. It’s never too late to discover new possibilities.”
✅ “I am capable, strong, and ready for this next adventure.”

💡 Bonus Tip: Repeat your new belief out loud every morning. Let it sink in. Say it until you believe it.

🔥 Remember: Your thoughts shape your reality. Let’s start thinking in a way that serves you!

Step 2: Reignite Your Passions

Now that we’ve started clearing out the mental clutter, let’s shift gears to something exciting—your passions!

When was the last time you did something just for you? Something that made you feel alive, excited, and full of possibility?

We spend so much time caring for others—our families, jobs, responsibilities—that we forget about ourselves. But here’s a reminder:

✨ You deserve joy, too. ✨

So, let’s reconnect with what lights you up.

📝 Today’s Task: Identify One Passion
Think of something you’ve always wanted to do but never made time for. Maybe it’s:
🎨 Painting (even if you’ve never touched a brush before!)
💃 Dancing (turn up the music and move like nobody’s watching)
📚 Writing that book you’ve been thinking about for years
🌍 Traveling (even if it starts with exploring your own city)
🎸 Learning to play an instrument
🚴‍♀️ Trying a new sport or hobby

👉 Now, commit to taking one small step toward it this week!

Not sure where to start? Keep it simple:
✔ Buy the supplies.
✔ Research a local class.
✔ Set aside 15 minutes a day to practice.
✔ Plan your first step—then take it!

🎉 This is your time. Go for it!

🌟 Need help shifting your mindset and rediscovering yourself? Download your FREE Midlife Reboot Workbook today!
🔹 Click here to grab your copy! 🔹

💛 Until tomorrow, take care of yourself and each other.

🚀 See you for Day 3: Taking Action – Creating Your Next Chapter!

With Peace & Love,

Renee

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The 3-Day Midlife Reboot Challenge

Reignite Your Passion, Purpose & Possibilities

Ready to rediscover yourself and embrace midlife with confidence? Join the 3-Day Midlife Reboot Challenge and start with Day 1: Clarity & Self-Discovery! 🌟 Today, we’re setting the stage for change by identifying what makes you happy and writing your Joy List.

💡 Take the first step toward your next chapter! Download your FREE Midlife Reboot Workbook and begin your transformation today.

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The World Is Ageist—How to Navigate a Society That Thinks You’re Irrelevant

I was already behind. At least, that’s how it felt.

After my divorce, I returned to work, believing that my degree and the business my ex-husband and I built would count for something. But no one saw my years of running a household, raising five kids, and managing a business as “real” work experience. Suddenly, I was the oldest one in every room I entered. And now, in my 60s, that feeling hasn’t gone away—it’s only intensified.

The world is ageist, no doubt about it. But here’s the truth: just because society tries to write us off doesn’t mean we have to accept it. We have value. We have wisdom. And we have the right to take up space.

So, how do we navigate a world that constantly tries to make us feel invisible? Here are three ways to resist ageism and reclaim your relevance.

1. Own Your Experience—It’s More Valuable Than You Think

Years of running a household? Leadership, multitasking, financial management, crisis resolution, and negotiation skills all rolled into one. Decades of work in a field that’s now “too young” for you? That means you know and insights that can’t be learned overnight. Don’t let outdated hiring practices or societal biases make you question your worth. Speak up about your experience with confidence. You’ve earned it.

2. Keep Learning and Stay Curious

One of the biggest stereotypes about aging is that we stop evolving. Prove them wrong. Stay curious, learn new skills, and adapt to change. Whether it’s technology, a new career path, or a personal passion, embracing growth keeps you engaged and clarifies that age does not equal stagnation.

3. Surround Yourself with People Who See Your Worth

You don’t have to convince everyone of your value. Some people will always underestimate you. The key is to build a community of people who respect, support, and uplift you. Find mentors, peers, and friends who celebrate your wisdom instead of dismissing it.

You are not invisible. You are not irrelevant. And you are certainly not too old to take up space in any room.

Share this post with someone you love. Until next time, take care of yourself and each other.

With peace and love,
Renee

Midlife Made Easier: Essential Resources for Reinventing Yourself

Explore these empowering resources designed to support your journey of self-discovery, confidence, and well-being in midlife.

🔹 “I Am” Mandala Coloring Book Relax, reflect, and rediscover your strength with 46 beautifully crafted pages featuring powerful “I Am” affirmations. Boost creativity, mindfulness, and inner peace.

🔹 “It’s Not Over Until I Win” Collection  Visit Renee & Ruby’s, our online store, and declare your resilience with this inspiring collection. Wear your strength proudly and remind yourself daily that you have what it takes to keep going. [Get 20% off with code ENJOY]

🔹 “Embrace Your Next Chapter” Guide  This free guide is a roadmap for midlife women ready to reinvent themselves. Discover self-exploration exercises, goal-setting strategies, health and wellness tips, and confidence-building techniques to create a fulfilling new chapter.

Your next chapter starts now—embrace it with confidence and purpose! 💖

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Do Your Skincare Products Have to Come from the Same Skincare Line?

Hello, friends! Welcome back to the Midlife Made Easier blog, where we are on a mission to help midlife women put their healing first.

When it comes to skincare, one of the most common questions I hear is: Do all my products need to be from the same brand? The short answer? No! But let’s dive a little deeper into why that is—and how you can build an effective routine that works for your skin.

The Myth of Sticking to One Brand

Many skincare companies market their products as being most effective when used together. While there’s some truth to the idea that formulations from the same line are designed to complement each other, that doesn’t mean mixing and matching is terrible. Choosing products based on ingredients rather than brand names can yield better results.

The Key to an Effective Skincare Routine

Instead of focusing on brand loyalty, consider these factors when building your skincare routine:

1. Know Your Skin Type

Are you dealing with dryness, oiliness, sensitivity, or combination skin? Understanding your skin’s needs will help you choose the right products, regardless of brand.

2. Look for Complementary Ingredients

  • Hyaluronic Acid + Ceramides: Great for hydration and skin barrier support.
  • Vitamin C + SPF: A powerful duo for brightening and protecting against sun damage.
  • Retinol + Peptides: Ideal for smoothing fine lines and boosting collagen.

3. Avoid Harmful Ingredient Combinations

Some ingredients don’t play well together, no matter the brand:

  • Retinol + Benzoyl Peroxide: Can cause excessive dryness and irritation.
  • Vitamin C + AHAs/BHAs: May lead to increased sensitivity.
  • Niacinamide + Vitamin C: They can cancel each other out if not formulated correctly.

4. Patch Test New Products

Always do a patch test before applying a new product to your entire face, whether using one brand or multiple. This helps prevent irritation or allergic reactions.

5. Listen to Your Skin

If a product isn’t working for you—whether it’s part of a full skincare system or a standalone purchase—don’t force it. Your skin will tell you what it needs!

The Bottom Line

Your skincare routine should be about what works, not what’s marketed to you. Mixing and matching brands is fine if the ingredients support your skin’s health and goals.

I hope this post helps you feel more confident in creating a skincare routine that works for you. Share this blog post with someone you love, and until next time, take care of yourself and each other.

Don’t forget to check out the resources at the end of the blog for more skincare and wellness tips.

With peace and love,
Renee

Midlife Made Easier: Essential Resources for Reinventing Yourself

Explore these empowering resources designed to support your journey of self-discovery, confidence, and well-being in midlife.

🔹 “I Am” Mandala Coloring Book Relax, reflect, and rediscover your strength with 46 beautifully crafted pages featuring powerful “I Am” affirmations. Boost creativity, mindfulness, and inner peace.

🔹 “It’s Not Over Until I Win” Collection  Visit Renee & Ruby’s, our online store, and declare your resilience with this inspiring collection. Wear your strength proudly and remind yourself daily that you have what it takes to keep going. [Get 20% off with code ENJOY]

🔹 “Embrace Your Next Chapter” Guide  This free guide is a roadmap for midlife women ready to reinvent themselves. Discover self-exploration exercises, goal-setting strategies, health and wellness tips, and confidence-building techniques to create a fulfilling new chapter.

Your next chapter starts now—embrace it with confidence and purpose! 💖

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How to Stop People-Pleasing and Why It’s Ruining Your Life

I was a people-pleaser. I didn’t want people to be sad. I didn’t want them to think badly of themselves. That, in and of itself, is not a bad thing. But I did it at the expense of my wants, needs, and sanity.

It took me years to get over people-pleasing. I would let folks be right even when what they were saying was definitely wrong. I stayed in relationships long past their expiration date. I belittled myself and made myself small so others could feel better about themselves. But in the process, I lost myself. It left me feeling sad, empty, and unaccomplished.

If this sounds familiar, know you’re not alone and can break free. Let’s discuss why people-pleasing is ruining your life and how to stop it.

Why People-Pleasing is Hurting You

  1. It Drains Your Energy – You spend so much time ensuring others are happy that you neglect your needs.
  2. It Leads to Resentment – Over time, constantly saying “yes” to things you don’t want to do builds frustration and bitterness.
  3. You Lose Your Authentic Self – When you focus on meeting others’ expectations, you might forget what makes you happy.
  4. It Keeps You Stuck – When you’re always worried about others think, you may hesitate to take risks, set boundaries, or make changes that could improve your life.

How to Stop People-Pleasing

  1. Recognize the Pattern – The first step is acknowledging that you tend to put others’ needs before your own. Pay attention when you say “yes” out of guilt or fear rather than genuine desire.
  2. Practice Saying “No” – This can feel uncomfortable at first, but saying “no” doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you honest. Try responses like, “I’d love to help, but I don’t have the time right now.”
  3. Set Boundaries – You don’t have to be available to everyone 24/7. Start setting limits on your time, energy, and commitments.
  4. Prioritize Yourself – Ask yourself, What do I want? What do I need? Then, start making decisions based on your happiness and well-being.
  5. Let Go of Guilt—Saying “no” doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you a person who respects yourself.

Breaking free from people-pleasing isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most important things you can do for yourself. You deserve to live a life that reflects your values, dreams, and happiness, not one dictated by the expectations of others. When you start setting boundaries, prioritizing your needs, and letting go of guilt, you reclaim your power and achieve confidence and fulfillment. Remember, you are worthy just as you are. So, take that first step—choose yourself t

Ready to Take Back Control of Your Life?

If you’re ready to stop people-pleasing and start living life on your terms, download our free guide, Embrace Your Next Chapter. It is a powerful resource designed to help midlife women reinvent themselves with confidence.

📥 Download it now!

And don’t forget to visit Renee & Ruby’s to shop our It’s Not Over Until I Win collection—featuring our brand-new “Until I Win” T-shirt—and enjoy 20% off for a limited time.

Until next time, take care of yourself and each other.

With Peace & Love,

Renee

Midlife Made Easier: Essential Resources for Reinventing Yourself

Explore these empowering resources designed to support your journey of self-discovery, confidence, and well-being in midlife.

🔹 “I Am” Mandala Coloring Book Relax, reflect, and rediscover your strength with 46 beautifully crafted pages featuring powerful “I Am” affirmations. Boost creativity, mindfulness, and inner peace.

🔹 “It’s Not Over Until I Win” Collection  Visit Renee & Rubys, our online store, and declare your resilience with this inspiring collection. Wear your strength proudly and remind yourself daily that you have what it takes to keep going. [Get 20% off with code ENJOY]

🔹 “Embrace Your Next Chapter” Guide  This free guide is a roadmap for midlife women ready to reinvent themselves. Discover self-exploration exercises, goal-setting strategies, health and wellness tips, and confidence-building techniques to create a fulfilling new chapter.

Your next chapter starts now—embrace it with confidence and purpose! 💖

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How to End Your Scarcity Mindset and Embrace Abundance

Growing up, scarcity wasn’t just a mindset but a reality. There was never enough food, money, or heat to warm up our cramped little house. My mom did her best, working tirelessly for $90 a week at a dry cleaner, trying to keep her three kids fed, clothed, and sheltered. But the constant struggle left a deep imprint on me.

Because of this upbringing, I always worried about not having enough. I’d hold onto things out of fear of needing them one day. Once, I received a $100 gift card after switching my internet service. Instead of using it, I put it away, thinking, What if I need it later for gas or food or…something? I clung to that “just in case” mindset.

But do you know what happened? The gift card expired.

I was frustrated and disappointed when I realized it was no longer valid. But more than that, I had an epiphany: living in scarcity cost me more than it was helping me. By trying to save something for the future, I had missed the opportunity to use it when it mattered. That moment was a turning point. I knew I couldn’t live in lack anymore. I had to move my mindset to one of abundance.

How I Shifted from Scarcity to Abundance

1. I Focused on Gratitude.
Every day, I started listing three things I was grateful for, no matter how small. Gratitude shifted my focus from what I lacked to what I already had.

2. I Learned to Trust Myself.
Living in scarcity had taught me to fear the future. I had to remind myself that I was resourceful and capable. I’ve faced challenges before, and I can handle whatever comes next.

3. I Allowed Myself to Enjoy the Present.
Instead of hoarding resources out of fear, I embraced the idea that what I need will come to me when needed. That meant using my gift cards, eating the “special occasion” foods, and enjoying what I had right now.

4. I Rewrote My Story.
Growing up, my narrative was that there was never enough. But I’ve worked to replace that with, “I have everything I need, and more is always coming.” It’s not just a mantra but a belief I nurture daily.

5. I Created a Vision for Abundance.
Scarcity keeps you stuck in survival mode. I shifted my energy by visualizing what an abundant life looks like: freedom, joy, generosity, and peace. I took small steps toward making it a reality.

Your Journey to Abundance

You’re not alone if you’ve ever struggled with a scarcity mindset. Breaking free takes time, but it’s possible. Start by challenging your beliefs about lack and focusing on all the abundance in your life.

Ready to Take the Next Step?
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We’d love to hear from you! How have you worked to overcome your scarcity mindset? Please share your story in the comments so we can cheer you on.

With Peace and Love,
Renee

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