Growing up, scarcity wasn’t just a mindset but a reality. There was never enough food, money, or heat to warm up our cramped little house. My mom did her best, working tirelessly for $90 a week at a dry cleaner, trying to keep her three kids fed, clothed, and sheltered. But the constant struggle left a deep imprint on me.

Because of this upbringing, I always worried about not having enough. I’d hold onto things out of fear of needing them one day. Once, I received a $100 gift card after switching my internet service. Instead of using it, I put it away, thinking, What if I need it later for gas or food or…something? I clung to that “just in case” mindset.

But do you know what happened? The gift card expired.

I was frustrated and disappointed when I realized it was no longer valid. But more than that, I had an epiphany: living in scarcity cost me more than it was helping me. By trying to save something for the future, I had missed the opportunity to use it when it mattered. That moment was a turning point. I knew I couldn’t live in lack anymore. I had to move my mindset to one of abundance.

How I Shifted from Scarcity to Abundance

1. I Focused on Gratitude.
Every day, I started listing three things I was grateful for, no matter how small. Gratitude shifted my focus from what I lacked to what I already had.

2. I Learned to Trust Myself.
Living in scarcity had taught me to fear the future. I had to remind myself that I was resourceful and capable. I’ve faced challenges before, and I can handle whatever comes next.

3. I Allowed Myself to Enjoy the Present.
Instead of hoarding resources out of fear, I embraced the idea that what I need will come to me when needed. That meant using my gift cards, eating the “special occasion” foods, and enjoying what I had right now.

4. I Rewrote My Story.
Growing up, my narrative was that there was never enough. But I’ve worked to replace that with, “I have everything I need, and more is always coming.” It’s not just a mantra but a belief I nurture daily.

5. I Created a Vision for Abundance.
Scarcity keeps you stuck in survival mode. I shifted my energy by visualizing what an abundant life looks like: freedom, joy, generosity, and peace. I took small steps toward making it a reality.

Your Journey to Abundance

You’re not alone if you’ve ever struggled with a scarcity mindset. Breaking free takes time, but it’s possible. Start by challenging your beliefs about lack and focusing on all the abundance in your life.

Ready to Take the Next Step?
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We’d love to hear from you! How have you worked to overcome your scarcity mindset? Please share your story in the comments so we can cheer you on.

With Peace and Love,
Renee

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